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Monday, 28 January 2013

Wife sends musician packing 3weeks after society wedding

An upcoming musician, Gbemi Adetuberu, married to Ibadan society lady and interior decorator, Laide, has been booted out of the latter’s apartment allegedly for physical assaults barely three weeks after their society wedding on November 8, 2012, at one of the Akure branches of RCCG. Mrs Olaide Adetuberu reportedly sent her husband, Mr. Gbemi Adetuberu, out of her apartment for allegedly making the heat in the kitchen unbearable for her with his endless beatings.



It was alleged that Gbemi was seen 20 days after the N4m wedding, beating the living daylight out of his wife in Lagos during an event that had foreign guests in attendance. The interior decorator was said to have kept mum over the battery allegation but eventually did opened the Pandora box after getting the nod of her lawyer. The lady confirmed that she had been through hell in the hands of her husband.


She described her husband, Gbemi, as a violent husband whom she had hoped would change in marriage. Hear her: “He used to beat me even before we got married, but I believed he would change once we got married. I was wrong.”

Claiming that she had invested millions of naira in her husband’s musical career since they started dating a year and a few months ago, Laide said Gbemi was not appreciative enough “to show some seriousness in his career” to justify her investment in his life. “He had always been interested in music, a passion that I passionately invested money in just to please him even though my parents wanted him to be a prophet. Because I wanted to support him, I paid almost N200,000 for him to participate at the NIMEX exhibition held at the Muson Centre, apart from other amounts spent on him”, she added.


At the exhibition on November 28, both had agreed that Laide would stay in the car outside the venue of the exhibition to get some rest as she had been exhausted by preparations for the event, and that Gbemi should join her in the car once he was done auditioning at the event. Gbemi was said to have been through in less than 30 minutes after he was called on stage, but didn’t go to join his wife in the car as both had agreed. Worried, she looked for Gbemi and found him chatting with an usher.

Not wanting to cause a scene however, she walked up to her husband, asked the usher to excuse her as she wanted to talk to her husband, and both strolled into the venue of the exhibition.

They talked briefly but Laide said she could sense from her husband’s countenance that he was getting worked up. Laide ignored Gbemi, who had shouted at her that they should leave the event and go home. “He didn’t care whether we were at a public place, he continued to raise his voice at me”, she said.

Laide said she was ashamed as Gbemi continued to shout at her that she should leave Muson Centre start going home. She refused to do as she was instructed by her husband and his next action was to slap her. “I was stunned.

He just kept beating me right there in public and astonished guests couldn’t do anything. It took the intervention of security officials before I could be rescued  from him. He beat me blue black. I never expected he would beat me like that in public. I had expected that he would wait till we got home, he didn’t. He has come to beg me, but I am afraid of losing my life because that is how he has been beating me from time.

Even my friends warned me not to marry him because each time he came to beg me after beating me, I always forgave him. But I’m now afraid for my life”. She said that her in-laws were aware of the ugly development, but that each time she reported Gbemi, his parents always waded in and Gbemi would always promise not to beat her  again.

She also said she reported these beatings to some of her friends. “After the Lagos beating, I decided to send him out of my apartment because the suffering was getting too much for me. I reported to the police at Iyaganku in Ibadan, because he has started threatening me via e-mails since he can’t come to my house. I have refused to take him back but I’m still afraid he may break into my house one day to injure me.”

However,the musician, Gbemi is yet to say his own side of the story.

Culled from Tribune

20 comments:

  1. Did she just say ""her parents wanted him to be a prophet""? Like the parents were controlling his future?

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  2. From what I read,she wanted a dummy husband,was too controlling and her family even had a say in what they wanted him to be.Sorry bout the beating but,u cant buy a husband

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  3. my parents wanted him to be a prophet.Like seriously??????? well waiting for the guy's side of the story

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  4. Is this really true but if is true the guy is ɑ̤̥̈̊
    beast mehn

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  5. these man is ah goat.. . .. Pls

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  6. Did she say she tot he wld change? Mtsheww desperate woman,pls o ladies,neva enter marriage tinkin ur man will change 4 u,if he dint change 4 his moda,wat mks u tink he will chnge 4 u?

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  7. Huh hmmm gbemiga has entered here again, dis bio isn't up to 25 o, he contested for mr Nigeria last year, gbemiga is very controversial.....didn't the so called laide know dis, he has used his fine boi and biceps kill dem....,issokay o

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    1. yes was wondering where i saw him..mr Nigeria contestant.too bad

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  8. na wah o.The guy is a monster with a cute face.But thats what u get when u marry a giggolo

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  9. I'm just so mad everyone is jumping into conclusions! D 1st controversial aspect of their relationship is that d woman is almost 10yrs older than he is! What did she expect?!n he always hit her b4 they got married? Did someone force her to? Fine,no man should lay his hands on a woman but wot does she do that triggers his anger?it doesn't make it alright 2 hit her but woman,u too find ur mate or an older guy nxt time(if there's a nxt time)!!

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    2. hmmmm,is it all abt age to u? D man is an ass hole....Did i just say man? He's nt man enough,he's just small guy doin shit....

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  10. Stupid girl, she thinks she can buy a man with her smelling money and her old self. How can u marry a man who beats u expecting he'll change, oya change him stupid fool. If ​i have my way ​i'll advice the man 2 pluck out all her teeth, stupid fool, old mama no go find ur mate.

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    2. Am sure u are nt a lady dats y u sayin dis nonsense,put urself in her shoes.. Ask for his mobile number na so dat u can call him and tell him dat... Rubbish...Am sure dats hw u treatin ur gf too....

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  11. This guy is just a beast. No respect whatsoever 4 her. Gold diggin bastard. I jst hate men that hit women. If u have so much energy 2 expend go pick a fight with someone ur size and get the beating of ur life. Fool. Women please stop making this same mistake. Marriage can never make a man change except he is ready and willing to do it 4 himslf... Poor lady. Ur better off without d fool

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  12. I can't really blame d guy...I'd brush my wife too if her peeps wanted me to become a prophet....lol...holla back...its DatniggaJay...

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  13. Pls guys don't let us come to conclution,let's hear from d husband

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