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What Really Happened in his Marriage?
“I was married for 8 years. It was a rather odd situation at that time. She got pregnant and I didn’t want to have a child out of wedlock and so I married her so we could build a home together for the unborn child. Things weren’t rosy then, but I believed it was the right thing to do for the sake of the child. I overlooked my own personal desires, I just wanted to do right. Our second child came and I stood by my family like I always have; but no one is perfect, we had our issues – the crisis persisted but we stayed because of the kids. But you never make that kind of decision because if the parents are not happy together then the children suffer.”
Is Your Wife Older Than You?
”She is not older than me, and she wasn’t taking care of my financial needs as people have insinuated. We were both starting off in life on the same grounds – no one was exploited.” “I’ve been separated for a year now but we still keep a good relationship, and our separation was a mutual agreement. She is a good woman but I could not go on with the union anymore seeing the foundation it was built on was untrue. I have two wonderful children – a ten year old daughter and a seven year old son. They are an integral part of my life; their mum and I have a very good arrangement on how to balance their lives and make sure that psychologically they are stable and unaffected by our separation.”
Separation is separation and the kids always suffer. They are not ignorant. They will def hear what people are saying, one way or the other it will affect them psycologically in the future. What happens if in the middle of the night, the boy calls out for his daddy and he's not there?
ReplyDeleteNever marry out of pity
ReplyDeleteI wonder what nigerian men are turning into this days,divorce now the order of the day!
ReplyDeleteHe married her outta pity #dis is super story# n u went on 2 impregnate her d 2nd tym........mshewwww
ReplyDeleteStupid and lame excuse. How can a man marry a woman out of pity. Are you the first person to impregnate a girl out of wedlock. Is your separation now not worse that if you had just left the lady alone to sort out herself after one child. Now she has two. Who did you leave her for? You have just messed up a whole lot of things. Just tell us the real reason you left. It's probably cos of another girl. Or are you now tired of pitying the lady? If you are tired of pitying your wife, then pity your children. afterall, you are the carrier of pity. Please tell that to the marines. We are not stupid.
ReplyDeleteI don't know y he's rubbin salt in d wound! He also got her preggers d 2nd time out of pity! MuMu oshi! I feel sad for d kids cos dey didn't beg2 b born! He wnts2 du a frank edoho on us shei! Nah real carrier of pity!
DeleteI really don't blame dis man, he is crazy, dat means. You were dating the lady out of pity also, May God forgive u.
ReplyDeletesharrrrap, look at his bend bend mouth, na na na out of pity, go if you want to go and dont give a lame excuse, when your chicken will come home to roost, it will also be announced here, ode, immature oshi.
ReplyDeleteDon't mind him...how is he so sure that his kids are not reading this blogg right now..
Deleteemeh, evil spirit are abound here o! i made my comment jeje, they (evil spirits) came and underline a word. pls do something about them, fast fast, hint: you can call the jet set paster with Jesus piece to came and caste them out. he eh heh heh lol!
ReplyDeleteLoooooooolll @evil spirits.it's my anti gbagaun dectection software ..hehe..nice1 dear.Thanks for all ur comments.- read all of them and they make my day.
DeleteThank u all.I see each and every1 of u with my petite lenses..God bless
Don't marry out of pity, for materialism or beauty! Only marry for love, that is the only way to a lasting happiness in marriage.
ReplyDeleteDon't mind joseph jor his a big lair I married out of pity but staying with my husband is the best thing that ever happen to me I love him now more than ever(am crazily in love) love grows when u spent ur time with the person.
ReplyDeleteDs man na fool plus liar,pity? U dated her out of pity? U f..k her out of pity? U made anoda baby out of pity? May God hlp us nt 2 see ds kinda men pass us 4 road sef.nw d wife knws,same as his kids,hp he does beg ds woman somday 2 pity him 2
ReplyDeleteI beg go back to your wife and stop deceiving yourself.your can always work your differences and do not punish the innocent chidren
ReplyDeleteE be like say one girl dey deceive you.go back to your wife
ReplyDeleteNever leave d woman who was there for u when u were nothing.Ask 2face to tell u.Rubbish
ReplyDeleteHe is talking trash......u were never in love with ur wife ....oju kokoro n him dey worry u......people like dis should nt be seen in nolywood so they dnt infect our youth with this their charachater.......nonsense man.
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