Blogger's Diary - A world where Mistresses rule

So,last week or so, Kola Boof ,a writer who is famous for being Osama Bin laden's ex girl friend"sex slave as she calls it,gave a rather interesting point of view on Mistresses being more privileged than wives. According to her.....
"Mistresses get to have the best moments with a man.They get to see his ass go home so they can have their space.They get gifts.
WIVES...have to work their asses off...they get cheated on and humiliated.They have to fit society's rigid WIFE role & sacrifice joy.

At first I let my emotions take the best part of me and didn't buy her idea.I though she was just being her normal bitchy self
Fast forward to today , a friend of mine who is an unapologetic mistress to a big shot calls me up excitedly” Emeh, come to my house now, you won’t believe what Tony just got me”.I rushed up to her place with little or no enthusiasm......



After all, e no go pass Iphone 5, 100k or another trip to Dubai .When I got there, I saw a brand new car parked outside.”Hmmn, this bastard(Tony)has got himself another ride abi, keeps using my foolish friend for peanuts”I thought to myself.
Then I knocked and she opened the door excitedly and screamed” I told you he was gon do it,I told you ,didn’t I?”
“Told me what “I countered?

"Tony just bought me this car. He got clinched this multi million naira contract and bought me this brand new car" She said jumping excitedly and I was stunned.

Dont get me wrong,no be today i dey hear say married man dey buy woman car ...but i didn't see him as that sort of man. His wife who has 3 kids for him is the most beautiful women Ive seen.

I felt my world stop for a second. Honestly there was this tiny bit of me which felt jealous of her achievement. She had been dating this man for 6 months and there seems to be no slowing down. He had taken her on 4 trips abroad .Now a car?
Then she said” I've told you to stop following all these small, small boys around, love, they won’t give, marriage, they won’t give, money, no, faithfulness, nil .

What of marriage dear,don't you think this man is blocking your chances of entering a healthy relationship coz of a car?

I don't want to get married Emeh.You and I know what we witnessed last year.(we watched a married man whom we thought was the most faithful man on earth,sleep with his house girl under his wife's nose)Naaa I just wanna enjoy as many married men as I can because they are all dogs

For one slight second, a part of me considered it and my mind went back to his wife at home. Sadly enough, a woman who rarely sees her husband because he spends half of his time taking trips with my friend. My friend knows nothing about his pain, struggles, but his wife goes through all that.
She makes sure his clothes are well ironed and fitted for another woman,she packs his bag when he's about to take a trip with my friend. she has seen him at his lowest, and my friend hasn't. Yet, my friend gets to reap the fruits of another woman’s labor.

Then I knew Kola Boof was right,the mistress is the one who gets the best clothes, the trips, the gifts, she gets the best part of this man.

The wife gets it all, the bitter, the sweet, and the ugly. When I think of this, sometimes, it deepens my resolve not to get married. Why go through all this stress with a man who goes outside to share his joy with some1 else? Why cook ,clean, cry only for my husband to buy a fucking car for another woman?

I am not here to judge any lady or man because I don’t know what they go through or the reasons for their actions but I give kudos to those men who place their wives first and appreciate those nights she stays up worried, those hours she cried in the labor room. Sometimes, see the beauty in her frown lines, her wrinkles, her years dedicated to loving you

For ladies who read this and think all mistresses enjoy, there are also side effects to dating a married man. Just like every other business venture, being a mistress is a big risk clouded with side effects. Notable among them is an acid bathe.lol

If you missed my real  life article on the BOLD MISTRESS,click HERE