Blogger's Diary - Why men and Sex go hand in hand

You might not agree with me.......

When i was younger.I had this idea that if a man says he loves me, he shouldn't be thinking of sex.But, as I've grown more matured, I've come to realize this isn't the case.Men are visual beings.What they see is what they love.

What you give is what they give back.If you give boredom, they give you boredom in return.If you give fun, excitement, they return it back to you.Is isn't possible for a man to love a lady without wanting to have sex with her? Yes it is!(that"s when the man is either cheating on her,or is a catholic priest).


Women, think with their hearts,we love what we don't see.Its in our nature and trust me, we cant change that.We are ever trusting, ready to make excuses when he cheats, when he hits us, when he,s out all night, when he doesn't show care and concern.Here is a typical excuse a woman would give for her mans actions(I think he's just busy. Or, he's been under some stress lately, Or maybe I"m not doing something right.) Yea right! Ever watched the movie, He,s Not Just Into You? If you haven't ,please go get a copy ladies...


Don,t get me wrong,being attracted to you doesn't mean he wants to keep you.These two are worlds apart and most ladies often misunderstand the difference between a man being attracted to you and wanting to be with none other than you.

A man can be greatly attracted to you without having that feeling of wanting to be with you.This occurs when you don"t help him take you to the next level in his world.Why do I have to help him ? You may ask...Yes, its a man's world.At least in this sphere of life.We do the teasing, the cooking, the petting, the raising...its our duty to make that man see more in us than that beautiful face or sexy body ...by being genuine, homely, romantic,hardworking, sexy(always)caring..

Look at it this way,the fact that he is attracted to you in the first place gives you an edge over all other ladies.An edge to get closer to him,to get into his world,but if you feel there,s nothing more to do,your having a wrong notion because ,he,ll not see you beyond the attraction level.And of course, when that withers away(it eventually does), there would be nothing to hold onto.No foundation to stand on during the stormy weathers.You and your attractive self would come crumbling like a pack of cards.Its sad when some ladies actually think they can keep a man by giving him just good sex.

Dear, that works during your honeymoon stage(when you just meet and are having butterflies in your stomachs) Good sex draws him nearer, nothing more to offer sends him running away at with the speed of lightening.


Ask yourselves, why would a man have sex with you, tell you your the best in bed, yet, never leaves the girl he,s been dating for a longtime or that girl who is not as attractive as you are? Because, she gives him something concrete to hold onto.He can have your sex outside, he can actually buy good sex,but, he cannot buy what she gives him,that satisfaction ,that deep attraction(no more physical),his live revolves around her, his penis revolves around you(lol).So it is a fallacy to think you can take over a man with mere physical attraction...........


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