Toke has carefully avoided talking about /acknowledging her husband's alleged infidelity ..However,this morning,she took to instagram to reach out to women who have sent her emails and who are probably dealing with the same issue of infidelity...
The amount of emails I have received from women across the world going thru difficult situations is heartbreaking. (Thank you all for sharing). In a world where the popular belief out there is that women hate eachother, women can't stand each other, etc. I have gotten emails/calls from women sharing their own personal pain and that is courageous. I can't reply everyone, (even though i honestly wish i could.)It is Funny how God uses even the most unbelievable things to bless you. I have been given a voice, a platform, (i don't even know how it's all happened) but I woke up one day and I found God and with that came purpose.(continue)
It's never about you, as hard as it seems, sometimes you go thru things not for you but for the people around you who need direction, a word of prayer or more. May God heal every broken heart out there, may his light give you the courage to begin to love yourself. It is tough being a woman, the preasure is real. You don't have to be a victim, you can rise above it all. Do not let society tell you otherwise. Be Bold, Be Strong. Trust God's purpose for your life and keep shinning. *And Yes, to all the people asking, there is a Vlog this week *
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Women go through just too much. And the funny most annoying thing is the cheating men do these with other women. How you openly cause your fellow woman to cry.
ReplyDeleteAbegi, say wat? After all d vlog n advises she's been dishing on on side chicks n cheating hubbys see her own life now? I am not going to condemn Maje! We don't know exactly how toke has been treating him either or wat she's been doing in there to make him find solace else were.
ReplyDelete1000likes for this but then cheating shouldn't be it.no woman deserves to shed a tear or be cheated on.it just not right,how difficult is it to be faithful????
DeleteBad is bad. A man of honour will never stoop so low to mess around. No matter what may come his way, he should have abide by his marital oath. Not blaming anyone here but time like this show who u really are.
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Toke loves attention sha, and she so hapi d world is giving her all d attention rite now, she cudnt even give herself sometime off social media...av she found her car remote now?
Maje is a pig. Why did he do this to her. what sort of problems do they have that they6 cant talk over or see a counselor? he knows she's a celebrity and she has a vlog that addresses such issues so he purposely did it to disgrace her. who knows he might even be jealous of her success. Babes forget the guy, be strong and continue praying. He can go and marry his cheap slut who desperately got preggo even when he dumped her sorry ass and married you. They are both losers. I declare today that as God lives, YOUR SUN WILL SHINE AGAIN.
DeleteAs a married woman I stand to tell u milly that no marriage is easy n it takes d willingness of two to make it work! We all know toke is a celebrity n likes d outside world way over anything. Do u even know if Maje had wanted a child n toke was ready to ruin her body? Wat if Maje could come out now n claim toke has been sleeping around n had men pay for trips? Almost everyone has someone who tickles their fancy aside their spouses but it takes d grace of God to find a faithful man who wldnt cheat despite our wahala as women.. n on the other hand a woman is d bedrock of a family am sorry to say toke didn't look prayerful or she had had enuf time to kabash against girls outside... prayer is a weapon
DeleteGND, I know Toke is not perfect cos no human is but the fact remains that her hubby is the object of the pain the poor girl is going through now. There is no need imagining whether Toke has cheated cos he has not said anything against her yet and he is the one that was caught cheating. I am mad at him for hurting her not for cheating. If it were a mistake, he should be with her now, soothing her pain. the marriage has just been 18 months, its not to late for her to have babies. As for that Lebanese-Calabar girl, God will definitely punish her.
DeleteMad at him for hurting her but not for cheating??? Haba milly? Who can tell how far cheating can go? Until I hear both sides I hate not d Anita n wish her safe delivery..
DeleteI meant if he made a mistake by cheating on her, he should show remorse by standing by her through this painful period. Anyway, lets not over-flog the issue.
DeleteA man said if he takes care of his family and decides to have a girlfriend outside, it's not called cheating and if the world can accept a man who changed himself to a woman,then no one should speak about infidelity.
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DeleteI think she needs to go off social media for a while! Toke always wants to be in the news! As foor the vlog, she should give it a rest already!
ReplyDeleteShe likes attention. Can her ig rest?
DeleteTruly she likes attention,she needs to take a rest from all this social media of a thing.
DeleteTruly I feel pity for her,cos what her hubby did was wrong..may God heal her heart
DeleteOk Toke, u shud b my sis coz u too like attention! HUGZ
ReplyDeletelol, u are one hell of a crazy girl
DeleteLolz Belinda baby
DeleteHey ya,it's well
ReplyDeleteWhat is bad is bad!
ReplyDeleteWhy should her life end because her husband impregnated another woman? Why must she play the victim card just because she is the victim? Her Husband who is the culprit is somewhere having a swell time (his action seems premeditated) and she should go off social media and leak her wounds because the sun refused to shine? *sideeye. Please let her grieve the way she can. I admire her strength really and on her vlog she ALWAYS says she's not an authority on such issues before she gives her opinion. Whatever the issue was/is (which we cant know cos we are not in the marriage with them) it doesn't negate the fact that her husband WAS/IS wrong.
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DeleteGod bless you for your wisdom. Unfortunately a lot of so called women lack that, or should I say married women.
DeleteToke, you strength is inspiring.
God bless Girl Next Door! Like you read my thoughts. A thousand likes for those comments!
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ReplyDeleteToke no dey fuck majek abi majestic(Maje) well,c hin head like black mamba,fucker.How can you date someone for 12yrz and still do this,the irk thing is that he is not saying anything,weyrey.
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DeleteGirl next door Is making so much sense, men cheat alot bit we don't know exactly what is going on in the marriage that warrants him to find solace in the arm of his ex n the truth is the pregnancy might not have been planned and some girls will never abort, never. Toke's relationship b4 marriage has been a public thing with their fight over the media always, she liked attention n she's bossy even at work. So until we hear from the hubby you all should give him a break like we don't know and accept the fact that men cheat. Now that it involves a baby una dey sound like say na e kill yaradua
ReplyDeleteYou are right...even Pastors tell us to follow the bible and not them so if she goes about preaching about relationships on her vlog, shes just doing her own job, it doesnt change the fact that she can get hurt, sometimes in a marriage, u give evth and it still fails at the end end of the day there is no formular to a successful marriage.
DeleteSorry Toke, heal well
ReplyDeleteToke, my dear, be strong and make yourself happy. The Almighty God will see u through Amen.
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Sorry Pretty Toke, n gudluck.
ReplyDeleteGid will punish al cheating men n women ijn, curse be on to u for slpn wf another woman's husband o
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