MPN fam,I received this mail a believe some good financial advisers in the house can help her.. A female reader wants to know
Please ask my fellow BVN.,how can a married woman with three kids spend 20k on food stuff and upkeep of her family ..N. B :,she uses stove and just put to bed her third child. Thanks I will be glad to read comments. God bless you
No husband?
ReplyDeleteBe as frugal as you can with ur expenses.. and please avoid. Having more children at least not for now
DeleteMadam pls manage, it's not to have such for feeding and upkeep. God wil provide
ReplyDeleteMadam pls manage, it's not to have such for feeding and upkeep. God wil provide
ReplyDeleteThis mail sounds like it missed road, BVN! Ok,
ReplyDeleteThis mail sounds like it missed road, BVN! Ok,
ReplyDeleteAnd you just put to bed. If only you were fit to work, then our advice would have been useful. So my advice is do only what is important. Don't go out too much cus you get to spend money on unnecessarily.
ReplyDeleteWith the present situation in the country honestly things are expensive, it's well with your home
ReplyDeleteI agree with u. Everything in d market is now twice the former price.
DeleteMadam u av to manage and trust God... u av 20k a month, some people don't even av 5k...
ReplyDeleteHmmmm... I keep asking myself how people with families cope with such pay. Even as a single lady earning some change, I still say it's not enough..bills & responsibility everywhere.
ReplyDeleteFirst of I'll advise u madam to look for multiple sources of income. U work during the week, and look for a Saturday/Sunday job like cleaning for people. As for the 20K with 3 kids,just make sure to keep food in the house. Spend without utmost priority only. Ur husband should also have a source of income. If he doesn't, encourage him to. Then tie ur legs & take care of the kids u already have.
Hmmm its not easy, will suggest u do exclusive breastfeeding for d last child. Honestly its not easy, but wt proper management u can do it.
ReplyDeleteWhat does your husband do? For your older kids, no private school o. Look around the neighbourhood, I'm sure you will be able to get a fairly reputable one. Remember that Jonathan had no shoes yet he became our president and that our future lie in the hands of God. Also make sure you have the basics at home like garrison, beans and rice. Don't bother with meat or fish there are other nutritious means of preparing food for kids e.g.crayfish even though the thing cost now sef but a little quantity goes a long way. Which church or mosque do you attend because I know most of them have means of supporting people in your situation. They can give you or your husband a small loan to start something which would sustain you in the long run. Talk to your kids too. Make them understand that things are not so rosy now but you're doing all in your power to change that. They may not understand now but will with time. And please no more children for now until the situatuon changes. Even though this country is not easy, God is your strength. Phew! Kudos!
ReplyDeleteA fairly reputable public school
DeleteTrust God!
ReplyDeleteA woman with 3 kids, and you just put to bed.., and a single parent i guess.. Hmmm, Madam you must manage oo..
ReplyDeleteGOD helps those who help themselves.!
You seriously need to be a manager right now For the sake of your kids
ReplyDeleteThis mail is from a stingy man...like wtf just 20k
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