I'm not going to carry on like my world hasn't been turned up side down.I read all the things you have read about in the news. Have no point have I ever said I love it all.We talk about things in a crazy way..Thank you all for your prayers and emails.
Honestly,women are going through soooooo much..I mean it's crazy.I think the most shocking email was the one you shared saying your husband got your bestfriend pregnant and she is gone on to have two other children for him..She also gave tips on how to deal with difficult breakups..She said...
She said women first need to stop living in denial because "When some one cheats on you,it's never about you.The blame game needs to stop...We live in a world where women are blamed for every single thing ""
She also said you must forgive those who have hurt you..Because that makes you move on...
She says the sun will definitely shine again...
Watch below
OK..Heal fast Toke...!!!
ReplyDeleteToke you're sad... The sun will definitely shine because it always does.
DeletePele,I no it aint easy but pls,take a break from social media. I no Toke is alwas busy but der was a time I was asking mysef wen she has tym for d hubby,though a man dat will cheat will surely do but enof of all dis paparazzi
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Is she still giving relationship Tips!!! I don't think she's in a position to still dish out anything sort of advice. Ok she has forgiven him and isn't leaving.Relationship Advicer my foot
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C'mmon gurl, cut the girl some slacks. It could be your turn 2mao. remember, what goes around comes around * side eye.
DeleteBack to sender coz I'm not that daft.She has all the slacks she needs but contrary to what she preaches,her hubby cheats on her on a daily basis.I'm also surprised at how quickly she forgave him and is even still in the same house with him.
DeleteI watched the vlog and can't make out any meaningful thing from what Shes saying.Im not ready to kiss anyone's ass let alone hers.I will never forgive a man who publicly shames me and impregnates a lady under my nose.I don't care what anyone thinks but I will take a walk.All these I must marry syndrome.Live what u preach period.Its not rocket science
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That Maje guy is wicked. God forbid.
DeleteThe truth must be said...relationship tips shldnt b her thing. Hw cn u advice on smtin u dnt knw about, it's eida she doesn't apply d tips or dey dnt work. A student cnt teach a stdnt wat he doesn't know
DeleteRu minding her.She will be the first to tell u to dump ur BF if he cheats on U.Coaching girls on how to be sharp when she lacks the so called skills she preaches on.Ur so called husband has bin cheating on u to the point of impregnanting his mistress and Ur still vloging in the same house.
DeleteTalk of low self esteem and self worth coz she clearly has both.Now I believe all the rumours about her being the one who chased him and begged him to marry her.She comes across as highly desperate.Atleast move out of the house,punish him and stress him.Let him work to get U back and win ur Trust back.Let the blogs carry it that his begging her around the place like Chris Brown is doing with Karreuche.
Desperate Toke is still in the same house blabbing show must go on.Yes show must go on for Maje coz he will soon jet off to welcome his first child with his mistress.Women know Ur worth. Stop selling yourself cheap all Im the name of tagging under a man.Gosh I'm so pissed at her. highly disappointed
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Well said!
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DeleteNo shaking,
DeleteBefore you run up and down ranting like the fool that you are, at least read, and learn to comprehend.
Where did she mention forgiving him, do you know who pays the rent, you local twart! If he cheated and got another woman pregnant, he sure is to move out.
You are properly to young to understand but stop with you pull down mentality and grow the fuck up. Numbskull.
Oriegwu!!
DeleteBiko, Wetin no shaking do u?
Lol, this is too much. Lmao!
As in ehn, No shaking got served hot.
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Seriously no shaking I understand what you are saying but in this time n age of women right and civilisation, women no longer move out of the house especially amongst married couples rather the man moves out. Only a woman who does not know her right packs her bags and leaves the house .. . Move out n go to where??? The man leaves. I watched tokes vlog n all i wanted to do was give her a hug n I pray she finds peace
DeleteIn Nolly movies the woman packs out of the house with her clothes in 1 black plastic or ghana must go bag....
DeleteI would never pack out of my house, he should liv the house 4 me!
Just logged on and I read this
Delete@Anon Ur nothing but an empty skull that had her brains removed at birth.A very mighty Fool at 40. It's clear Ur someones 5th or 6th wife coz u sound polygamous.Your pot bellied polygamous husband have so dealt with Ur shapeless self that I'm sure Ur even contemplating suicide coz u sound suicidial.
Talk about reading comprehension when it's clear U didn't even watch her Vlog or Ur so dumb as usual to put together the rubbish she was saying.
In the history of Nig and men cheating,this is the FIRST time that the whole country both outside have rallied around and supported a lady whose husband clearly wronged her.Toke claims to be a relationship expert and I've watched a few of her vlogs where she reads out mails sent to her and be dishing advice and even asking if the girls have brains or not.
Reverse back to 2015 aand the so called relationship experts hubby impregnants his mistress. she's still there sitting down and saying show must go on and blah blah blah and even daring to dish out more advice.
Toke is supposed to be smart as she claims and knows it all.Instead of her to punish that useless Maje and drag him to nothing for rubbishing her dignity,Shes still saving face.U don't need a sought sayer to tell u that she has already forgiven him and has taken him back.
So @ Anon Old mama youngy,U can follow Toke Ur role model and keep being a trash can for these useless men.Im sure besides. Being a 6th wife,Ur hubby still has concubines littered everywhere.
No shaking doesn't tolerate trash and I have zero tolerance when it comes to stuffs like this.I expected more from Toke and so does the millions of people who supported and backed her.Her still remaining in that house means she's telling Pple they just wasted their time
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Toke Piece of Advice for u
DeleteQuit dishing out advice: coz any girl that listens to U,would sure end up like u.Stinged
Focus on your Trending Tv Episode
U can turn Ur Vlog into dishing out tips on hair and Makeup since it's clear Thats what Ur good at and yes I learnt Ur putting out your own hair line
Quit being a notice me coz U've being already noticed
If u decide to take Ur shit of a husband back after this show of shame,try and have a work-home balance so Ur not losing out on either side
I'll suggest u stay out of the media for now and have an alone time with yourself where u reflect and re-evaluate
I hope U've learnt a thing or two from this and even if u must take Maje back,let That beast suffer.Give him the ultimate punishment and make him to sign an undertaking
Keep ur head high and always know Ur a Star.Just have alil more self worth and self esteem
Signed
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No shaking...your gbagaun plenty for these your comments.. Stick to short write-ups and you will gbagaun less!!! :D
Delete@Anon atleast U read it dats what matters.As for the errors,use them as maggi when cooking tonites dinner.Better now!!!
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Anita Solomon is that uuuu commenting a no shaking????? U sure need jesus
Delete@no shaking look at it this way, pikin wey say him mama no go sleep him sef no go sleep. There is no need to hold so much grudge/hate against anyone who hurts you cos then you never get over it. Spitting venom or plotting revenge won't undo what he did and to let go/forgive is to move on which is what anyone who's hurt needs. she has accepted (which means she's not in denial). Certainly people die of what they treat others for (doctors die from diseases they treat people of doesn't make them bad doctors). Her vlog made her what she is today and now more than ever before she needs to keep living her life. I actually do enjoy her vlog cos sometimes I think its insightful (you get to know that some other girls experience what you have experienced as well). In relationships/marriage there are no formulas/rules/laws her word is not law its just gives insight. Men cheat, women cheat that's life lets get over it. A marriage/relationship isn't a competition of who out does the other. If a partner cheats suck it up, forgive and move on cos it was never about you. why should the victim (in this case Toke) pay for his wrong deeds? No matter whatever her shortcomings were/are it doesn't make the cheating right. Let her grieve the way she can (we are all different).
DeleteTrue talk my dear.God bless you.
DeleteTrue talk,its neva about u,d lord wud heal u.amen
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Rubbish, in a civilise country, she's suppose to release a statement saying she's ending her vlog...
Sorry Dear!! But she hasn't called off the marriage or has she??
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Omg! this girl is strong. Love you lots. Big hugs and God bless you.
ReplyDeleteHmmm. Glad she has moved on..
ReplyDeleteToke makinwa....A strong woman
All the best Toke!
ReplyDeleteStrong woman,may God strengthen ur hrt IJN
ReplyDeleteCountless women go through dis every other day n d only solution is to look d other way. Make ursef happy face ur kids, job or do whatever to distract ursef frm dat ugly situation. Becos life goes on wt or wtout him period.
ReplyDeleteso true
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DeleteTrue talk. You 'must' not kill yourself bicos someone wishes or wishing you death.
Some people get time oh!
ReplyDeleteI wish her all the best... IT IS WELL
ReplyDeleteHey ya,it's well
ReplyDeleteThis is just the reason why shit keeps happening.
ReplyDeleteThe men knows that even if they Fuck up, the wife will forgive and life goes on.
What the fuck!
Please, any man that does not respect me enough to embarrass me this much is not worth me.
All these forgive and forget will keep making the men disgracing women. Haba.
*disgrace
DeleteShut up judgmental people. Why do you think she is still with him? Maybe he left the house as you can see she has taken down the wedding picture. Why can't you think that probably she was the one paying for the house and asked him to leave
ReplyDeleteDeuces. No shaking is saying the fact. Toke acting all strong as if its a normal thing. Its ok if she cries her heart out, people will give her a shoulder to lean on. Instead she's still dishing out tips. She needs to be real. Funke Akindele went thru such and she came out publicly. People supported her. She's there not talking straight about the matter. Be real Toke. Ure human. If u don't do this on time u'l need a therapist soon. My 2 cents
ReplyDeleteLife goes on Toke. Its ok 2 cry ol u want @night n be strong in the morning, dnt mind those dying 2 c yo tears, they wana laf @u.....its up 2 u 2 deal with the situation @hand the way u want, after all we cnt all react the same way.
ReplyDelete***** but u shud stop this relationship advisor thing naa!
Belinda baby, is this you? So there can be a good part of you or did you run out of that cheap weed you take? Thought fr a while if I was reading Sandra Ayode's comment. I must confess I love this gentle part of you.
Delete....and where hv u bn ol dis while? I ddnt take ma medication 2day so dnt blame me naa..
DeleteBeen around. Badt network screwing me 24/7. Reason I hardly comment. #love_ya_loads! #love_the_entire_mpnfam
DeleteWomen should not always marry for money or they are desperately in need of a man to marry they will fall into wrong hands -Pst.Chekeleke
ReplyDeleteIs she a qualified Life Coach like Dr Phil? I find her very irritating & condescending yet vulnerable as hell. What lady would talk like this with all the vulgarity, Abasi Mbok! I don't condone what her so called husband has done but can you imagine living with this little madam who knows all? She needs to stop over sharing on social media and take stock of the whole situation 4 d meantime. She's got issues. She's fake.
ReplyDeletePls where do I meet u to get a hi5.
DeleteShes clearly annoying and the fact that she even dared to dish out advice again on her Vlog following her scandal is beyond me.She needs to quit giving out useless advice coz it's clear they don't work and she's clueless
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Toke, i thank God Almighty for your life. God will continue to uphold you.
ReplyDeleteIt is well.